Anticipation, preparation and trepidation………..

I am terribly excited yet petrified at the same time preparing for my session next week. I am afraid I may not have the capacity for this that I used to have or that I get into it and hate it (somehow I doubt it … but it still niggles) or that I will end up disappointed.

 

I have made a lovely pig nose for my role as Miss Piggy, the pig ears are next, it is amazing what you can find on YouTube, full instructions on how to make costume elements; as I am afraid the delivery of nose and ears are not going to be on time… and it adds to the excitement of what is to come keeping me focussed on my piggyness.                                                                                 

I have however received confirmation that the very delightful pig tail butt plug will be delivered on time for the big action next week….

I went shopping for craft supplies and found the most delightful jumbo pegs in the aisle up from the craft supplies and could not resist buying some for use on me next week.

On the menu for the day we have the following:-

Bondage

Tape

Wax Play

Forced orgasms

Flogging

Caning

Breast Bondage

Spanking

Caning

Pegs

Electro Torture

Forced giving of blow jobs

Humiliation and lots of gadgets and toys

Quiet the list I know for one session, by the looks it is going to be a marathon session, luckily more that one Dominant and a submissive or two have been pressed into service.

I have butterflies in my tummy and at times can barely breathe with excitement and pure terror…wishing the hours away … cannot wait hoping it comes soon….hoping the Dominants take pity on me and give me something practical to do.

Miss Piggy is back in action...

After a long period not being at all active in the BDSM scene, I am venturing out for a session with two friends of mine, a Master and Mistress.

Miss Piggy

                                                                                                                                              We are planning a Miss Piggy session for the pain piggy in me, complete with ears, snout and the most amazing pink piggy tail butt plug.

As usual I will blog every day about my preparation activates and any tasks they may set me to do.

The pink butt plug was ordered from Extreme Restraints today and I expect deliveryin the next two days. I will be sure to show it off as soon as it arrives.

Pink Pig Tail Butt Plug                              

I also ordered a piggy ear and snout set from Amazon as part of my outfit. 

Exciting days ahead, I had forgotten how great the anticipation leading up to a pain session can be.

Be sure to come by tomorrow for an update…

Lots and lots of new toys....

I have been stressed these past weeks, my crocodile is critically ill and I have been racing between his factiry , my office and the hospital trying to cope with everything , get enough sleep be upbeat and still get to gym at 6 am every morning for training with the personal trainer.

I hit rock bottom today , I am exhausted and an emotional wreck. Sir Alix is coming to town and I hopefully will have a nice stress relieving session with him tomorrow evening rolling straight into a serious play session on Sunday morning.

In my emotional state I decided I needed a spot of retail theraphy, :) So , I shopped till I dropped... and what did I go buy that warrants me writing about it ?

Erotica and sex toys.... my favourites... I bought all three of the newly released Fifty Shades Trilogy... some sexy reading material , maybe that will get me all horny and distract me.

Nipple clamps on

And since I was in the area, I decided to stop in at the sex toy importers I know , who always give me wholesale prices on anything I purchase.

And since the prices are so reasonable I really splurged... I bought the following....

1. New nipple clapms joined to each other by a really nice heavy chain
2. Anal bead headed vibrator
3. Fudgy remote egg vibrator
4. Two finger Juice Junky Vibrator
5. 2 Breast Enlager , breast pumps
6. Latex strand Whip Dick
7. Noduled Vagina Pump with mini vibrator
8. New strap on vibrator with harness

And what does one do when one has new toys? You have to try them on... as I sit here I already have the new nipple clamps with chain on my nipples.......A lovely dull ache as I sit here in the slightly chilly room with my nipples clamped...

As I try each of the new toys out I will if possible take a picture of it in use, alternatively I will be taking pictures of the toy in question and post for all to see what is sure to be used on me tomorrow evening, and certainly to be documented and photographed and reported on after tomorrow and sunday's sessions.

Anal beeaded vibrator, now firmlyin place!

I do so love the feeling of a nice nipple clamp... it does such lovely sexy things for me.

Well I need to do way more testing... will post after sessions again. 

Plan and ensure you have all you need....

My play dates are usually elaborate and require a fair amount of planning and logistics as most of my play mates and partners are internationally based and scheduling is a nightmare. In addition my Master enjoys watching my play sessions via web cast, it plays to his well developed voyeuristic streak.

For my last session with Sir Segmen all had been planned, checked and double checked , shoes, equipment toys, laptop with camera's and sound and more....

It takes me forever to prepare for a major play session... the bathing and washing, shaving to ensure that all is smooth and soft, applying lotion, washing and drying my hair ( a two hour process on it's own) , polishing nails perfectly , applying make up to the instructed specifications and finally getting dressed.

Dressed up... posing with the great dane... lucky for me she is a female.

Getting into a corset and being laced into is a performance in itself... anyone who has ever had to be laced into a corset will attest to the fact that you need to hold on tightly to a door frame whilst being tugged and pulled to get the corset pulled as tight as most Dominants would prefer it to be. And once in the corset sitting down becomes a major challenge....

None the less , all of this has been accomplished well in time for our play date , all that remained was to walk across the yard in full regalia , balancing on 6 inch heels to the dungeon and present myself to Sir Segmen and to get the web cast started.

Tottering in my heels all excited I get the computer up and running and try and log on and nothing happens... freaking about not getting on line and being late I try another laptop... and still nothing. Then I check the amount of data available... nothing... the balance of the data had expired at midnight and I have nothing ... I cannot web cast for Master... ohhhhhh deary me,... and since it has been some time since Master has seen me being punished,i knew that not broadcasting was not an option... after begging forgiveness from him via yahoo on my mobile phone... I now had to beg Sir Segmen to please go to the store for me and get some data time...

Since I was all dressed up , if you can call being in a corset , stockings and killer heels dressed. I was not planning on going anywhere... Sir Segmen graciously agreed that we could go to the store, but that W/we had to go to the store and that I had to drive and needed to get out and buy the data time myself.

I was mortified....I begged him please please could he not go into the store for me , as I would certainly get arrested if I got out like that . Sir Segmen relented and agreed to let me wear jeans over the stockings but not much else...

Perched very upright ( due to corset) I drove to the closest store.. at the petrol station... mortified as I had to stop at a traffic light or two on the way and all the cars stopped next to us got a excellent view of my breast bulging in my corset on the verge of popping out...

A similar view to what the other drivers had...

Once at the store.. I wriggled out of the car ( which took forever) and tottered into the store in my corset and jeans covered by a light wrap ( just enough not to get arrested) and joined the line waiting to be served and purchase data time. Data time in hand... i thought my ordeal was over... wishful thinking...

As we turned into the road our house and the dungeon are on , Sir Segmen instructed me to stop the car and wriggle out of my jeans, I had to drive back to the house in only my corset for anyone to see and my complete mortification he instructed me that once I reached home I would have to get out and open the gate and then get back into the car and drive it in and close the gate again, in full view of passers by and the staff on the property . Bending to get out of the car with my pussy on full view balancing as to not fall flat ....

Shew... all of this... and the play had yet to start in full force... and since I had been remiss in not having all perfect for the session I was to receive additional punishment during play ....

More on the play tomorrow....

In position for my first spanking of the day !

Mistress Scarlett's Heavenly Hell: Welcome to Scarlett's Heavenly Hell

Mistress Scarlett's Heavenly Hell: Welcome to Scarlett's Heavenly Hell: As those who have been reading my original blog will know, not only am I a spankophile, I am also embrace BDSM as part of my lifestyle. I b...

Waiting for feedback......

I have not blogged for months , life had overtaken me. December vacation, my best friends wedding, work, my partners stint in rehab finally getting my dungeon ( Scarlett's Heavenly Hell) set up, opened and functioning and hosting a number of fetish events including a slave hunt at Easter..... naked slaves running around being hunted by Mistresses with raw eggs and being spanked and caned for each hit of an egg.

Me at a recent photo session...

I have now been issued with a tablet in the hope that I will use the bits of time that i have free to blog and entertain all of you with my exploits again.I have decided I will add a page to my blog that will deal with my Domina side and keep this page dedicated to my submissive side ( far to seldomly indulged these days.....

I have a few pictures from a recent submissive session with a regular playmate that I will write about and upload later tonight at home.

More of me dressed to the nines...

However what has gotten me blogging again is the wait for approval and scheduling of our play session, which will hopefully result in a  great new series of pictures and blog posts....

So if you all have been starved of my particular brand of blogs and real life pictures.... do post and comment your encouragement to urge both DOM'S to set the date and time for our session , the waiting is driving me crazy... and it making sure that all I can think about is the proposed play session and all that will be happening to me ... and how very bad it all is but sooooo exciting and sexy .

So do now encourage Sir F and Sir A to set the date and time.... soon that way I can write more about my exploiuts as Daddy's Little Girl.... :)

The logo for my new dungeon/play space.....

Don't Stop till I am begging you for more!

Bob the Crocodile and I attended the Visogenist Dilletante party in October and here is a picture of us taken by la_Souris... it makes me think of the song by the Prlotones... watch for more pics  some taken by Bob and more stories.

 

 

 

Push me to the floor -The Parlotones

 

Don’t stand next to me and think it
Comes so easy ,I am not your toy
Coz you think love is something new,
But it is just a tool to make it alright
Push me to the floor don’t give up
Until I’m begging you for more
I’ll be thinking of the time I felt inspired
Don’t stand next to me I love the smell
Of ecstasy it makes me feel inspired
Coz you think love is like a sunrise
Up against you,somehow you’re
Always right
Push me to the floor don’t give up
Until I’m begging you for more
I’ll be thinking of the time I felt inspired
Push me to the floor,make me think
That you’re the one that I adore
It reminds me of a time I felt inspired
Your worth is worth is worth nothing when it’s
At someone else’s cost
Fortune’s not appreciated when the
Sweet stuff comes to fast
Push me to the floor don’t give up
Until I’m begging you for more
I’ll be thinking of the time I felt inspired
Push me to the floor,make me think
That you’re the one that I adore
It reminds me of a time I felt inspired
Your worth is worth is worth nothing when it’s
At someone else’s cost
Fortune’s not appreciated when the
Sweet stuff comes to fast
Push me to the floor don’t give up
Until I’m begging you for more
I’ll be thinking of the time I felt inspired
Push me to the floor,make me think
That you’re the one that I adore
It reminds me of a time I felt inspired

 

And for you listening pleasure a link to push me to the floor.... one of my all time favourites!

http://youtu.be/OPo3KLZ4SpM

 

Lovers and kink.........

As an active spankophile and spankee it is at times very difficult to explain my activities to a new lover. One always wonders when one should bring up the fact that you do so enjoy having your bottom spanked and that one has one's own slave that willingly and lovingly presents himself for spanking, caning , whipping and more.....

I had from the start indicated to Bob The Crocodile , as he is affectionately known ( due to his predilection for biting me), that I enjoy a good spanking and that I had a darling slave called " bitch". Bob has been so kind as to regularly spank me for pleasure... not as yet as punishment... and I dread the day I get a spanking as punishment from him.

Recently I have started moving all my toys and implements into a new play space/ dungeon and Bob has graciously been assisting me , in the moving we have started unpacking and Bob has discovered my bullwhips and lunging whips....

Bob has now become rather fond of the bullwhip and has been practising his swing and cracking of the whip.... a little to well for my own peace of mind....I now live in greater fear of domestic discipline in our new love affair...

I am thrilled however that my lover has embraced me so fully though and is an active participant in my life and has embraced spanking as a part of our time together...

In this instance my instincts were right... being open and honest has resulted in a love affairs based on complete honesty and an enjoyment of my fetish and a joint discovery of others ...

VIVA BOB THE CROCODILE ....

P.S and he indulges me in my Stepford Wife predilection as well... allowing me to prance around in high heels , pearls and an apron only cooking and serving dinner for him... what more can a girl ask for ?

More Visogenist's delights...

Another one of the pictures fromSaturday evenings party... this time...my bottom is being lightly caned by the host of the evening !

Bend for it beauty!

Visiogenist Dilletante's Event

I have not yet been able to see HH to administer the 12 strokes he needs to bend for due to his appalling rugby betting during the RWC, and we had another weekend of Rugby and, heheheheheh, HH lost again! He is now due 18 from me... creeping closer and closer to the amounts I usually have to bend for.

I have had a rather busy time at the office and in addition to all the regular work, I had been shanghaied onto the planning committee for a photographic kinky party this past Saturday evening!

Me , in some of my finest burlesque gear - Photo by la_Souris

What fun was had by all! I am awaiting all the pictures from the party and shall post a number of them here for all your pleasure.. to kick off your viewing pleasure, a photo of me all dressed up! Watch this space for many more photgraphs from the party! It was certainly an evening to be remebered.

Bryce Lawrence... my new intended target !

Sadly South Africa was eliminated from the 2011 RWC on Sunday. I however have been victorious for the last weeks in our betting and HH is due to receive 18 of the best from me. I however would gladly give HH a pass if I could get my hands on Bryce Lawrence the idiot of a referee.

He needs serious retraining and a good solid caning to make him pay attention....

Big weekend bets coming and I may just yet loose and end up bending for HH very soon again....

I leave you with some images of what I would like to do to one said referee that ensured my Bokke were sent home early ! My blood is green , but I will be wearing Black & White proudly in support of  my slaves home team! Lucky for bitch the Kiwi's are not playing against the Bokke.... I had been thinking about ordering bitch to wear green and support the Bokke publicly in New Zealand! That would have been real interesting.....

Be back soon with new sexy spanking and other pics for you all of my new play room and our first plays in it.... but for now... what I would like to do to Bryce Lawrence.

Rugby World Cup 2011 continues...

As all saw last week I had received a rather stiff and impactful 18 from HH for my losses up to that stage in the Rugby World Cup! It must have had an impact , my betting track has inproved remarkably and I have emerged victorious and HH will now be at the receiving end of 12 strokes from the cane from me.

So sometime this week dear HH will have to offer his rather tender bottom ( he has already had a good 12 from another loss) for my attention.

I will report back once I have delivered my 12 ... I should however not gloat to soon as we have 4 very tight and difficult games to predict this weekend in the quarter finals... all eyes will be on Wellington @ 7 am SA time on Sunday morning... I will be watching the game with Bob the Crocodile at a yet to be determined venue... hopefully at home , across his lap and a spank or two for every point the opposing team scores ( we are playing Austrailia, so that is risky) .

I am posting a couple of unrelated pics as a consolation for all who had hoped to see my naked bottom! Until we know what the results are of quarter final betting... please enjoy the photo's... all of me in some shape form and description....

For Bob the Crocodile... red nails.. rope, pearls and a capable mouth

pink hand knotted flogger, lovingly knotted by my own hand...

Slipping on pink ferech seamed stockings...

pink stockings...

blindfolded and collared...

Rugby World Cup 2011

We are half way into the third week of the 2011 Rugby World Cup and I have earned a number of strokes betting on the various matches. For those who do not know much about rugby and the Rugby World Cup, I include a brief description. And for those who follow and read my blog that are from serious Rugby paying countries like ourselves will understand.

Tournament rules

 

Pool Phase

The 20 Teams have been allocated to four pools of five Teams each at the RWC 2011 Pool Allocation Draw, held in London in November 2008.

The pool phase will consist of a round robin in which each Team shall play each other Team within the pool once. There will be 10 matches played in each pool, for a total of 40 matches in the pool phase of the Tournament.

Match points system

The following number of match points will be awarded for each pool phase match:

• Win - 4 points
• Draw - 2 points
• Loss - 0 points
• 4 or more tries - 1 point
• Loss by 7 points or less - 1 point

Rankings at the completion of the pool phase

At the completion of the pool phase, the teams in a pool are ranked one through five based on their cumulative match points, and identified respectively as winner, runner-up, third, fourth and fifth.

If at the completion of the pool phase two or more teams are level on match points, then the following criteria shall be used in the following order until one of the Teams can be determined as the higher ranked:

1. The winner of the match in which the two tied teams have played each other shall be the higher ranked;
2. The team which has the best difference between points scored for and points scored against in all its pool matches shall be the higher ranked;
3. The team which has the best difference between tries scored for and tries scored against in all its pool matches shall be the higher ranked;
4. The team which has scored most points in all its pool matches shall be the higher ranked;
5. The team which has scored most tries in all its pool matches shall be the higher ranked;
6. Should the tie be unresolved at the conclusion of steps 1 through 5, the team that is higher ranked in the updated Official IRB World Rankings on October 3, 2011.

Qualification / elimination at the conclusion of the pool phase

The winner and runner-up in each pool qualify for the quarter-finals. Teams ranked third, fourth and fifth will be eliminated from the Tournament.

Knockout Matches

Quarter-finals
The first two teams in each pool will progress to the quarter-final round, which will be contested by knockout matches. The quarter-final matches will be determined as follows:

QF 1 - Winner pool C v Runner up pool D
QF 2 - Winner pool B v Runner up pool A
QF 3 - Winner pool D v Runner up pool C
QF 4 - Winner pool A v Runner up pool B

Teams winning quarter-final matches qualify for the semi-finals and teams losing quarter-final matches will be eliminated from the Tournament.

Semi-finals

The semi-final matches will be contested by knock out matches, as follows:

SF 1 - Winner QF1 v Winner QF2
SF 2 - Winner QF3 v Winner QF4

The winners of the semi-final matches qualify for the Final, and the losers of the semi-final matches will contest the Bronze Final.

HH and I have been betting on rugby matches for some time always for 6 of the best if the team you supported lost. For RWC we have added a points differential into the mix as we tend to support the same teams on a number of occasions.

HH has been caning for some years and has never been able to make me cry, even when he gave me 36 of his best I was all okay ,not tonight . Tonight I ended up quietly crying away after about the 12th or so stroke.

He unerringly found the same spot with the tip of the cane , just in my seat , that spot where my bottom and legs meet. Lovely pictures for all to enjoy ....

None of me crying.... thank goodness... and right after my blistering caning ... what did I do ... place more bets on this weeks games...

See you at some stage this week again... hope you enjoy ...

Snippets from my crazy weeks ...

It has been far to long since I have blogged. Bad naughty girl that I am. I must make a point of writing at least every second day or so! I will endeavour to keep to a regular schedule. Lots of news to share... since I last blogged , I have cooked dinner in the nude in my heels and an apron ( lovingly made by myself) for a dear friend and was duly rewarded by a delightful spanking and some related fun! Been spanked by same friend more times than I can mention (not that I am complaining).

Had a number of pictures taken of my bottom and pussy by same friend, started planning my kinky photographic shoot ( just need to get all the props and wardrobe together and make it happen, I certainly will share the results here!) 

Found the perfect rental space for the creation of my personal dungeon/play space. Started planning the layout of the space... ( any suggestions or ideas are welcome, or suggestions of must have items in a dungeon) .

And of course silly girl that I am have taken more bets with HH on rugby ( especially with the 2011 Rugby World Cup on now) , and have lost quiet a bit already and currently need to go pay of my debts next week. Currently I am already due 12 of the best from HH and there are a number of games to be played yet this week, by the time the last game is played on Saturday , I may be back up to about 24 or more... so watch this space... this coming week probably Tuesday or Wednesday there will be new posts regarding my punishment and the inevitable pictures of a bruised and well caned bottom.

Exciting times ahead and I am planning a photographic BDSM play party with a fellow kinkster... more photos to be shared after the party on the 15th of October 2011.

And since I have been so bad about writing I will be posting a number of pictures this weekend for your pleasure... most of them of my bottom and other bits punished and well attended to ...

Enjoy ... hope you will all pop in regularly this weekend and see what I have been up to in the last weeks ( I have been a tad busy..as the photos will show). And I have spanked a male submissive bottom or two... rather hard and well!

See you tomorrow again!

Death warmed up , return of the Stodges

My week has resembled a sketch from the Stooges form way back when when all movies were silent and domestic discipline certainly reigned. If anything could go awry this week it certainly did , starting with me all excited about a spanking ,waking up with a raging fever and chest infection just shy of bronchial pneumonia!

So  no being out in the cold after sunset , thus no spanking ! Add a crazy week at the office dealing with HR issues, labour court and other incidentals ... no fun for me. Coughing and spluttering I have seen the week to it's end and I am now off for a couple of wicked evil days with slave, and sluttyboi joins us on Sunday !

Have taken so many pills this week I definitely rattle if you shake me, need to clear last of the nasty chest as there is nothing less attractive than a Mistress with a hacking cough and snotty nose! Tomorrow morning we are setting off on our trek to the mountains for some fresh air and solitude ( required when you plan on making a slave squeal like a piggy) , no neighbours bar some trout in the dam next to the cottage , I am sure they will be relieved to know that having them for dinner is the furthermost thing from my mind.

So for those who love seeing my spanked bottom, I apologise , spanking for birthday will have to happen on my return and for those who enjoy the darker side of me ... watch this space, much to come this week end !

The "F" word

The dreaded "F" word has come to taunt me just a day before my birthday spanking and slave's arrival... I have come down with the FLU and an upper respiratory tract infection ! Typical... NO ,I could not get ill a week ago ... it has to happen now days before our trip.

A trip I may add that should have happenned 6 months ago already ! I point blank refuse to let this stop me! Been to see the Doctor and have been given the hugest dose of antibiotics and handfulls of the pharmacists flu muti known and will systematically doese myself to ensure I at least feel close to human again before our departure on Saturday. I am sure I will rattle if you shake me with the amount of tablest I am swallowing at any given time.

Feeling worse than death warmed up!

1st Birthday Spanking scheduled!

As suspected HH is the first to schedule a birthday spanking! And now the clock starts ticking... and the nerves start building! In addition I need to weigh myself and see if I have lost the required weight ....if not the strokes will be added in addition to the 12 for my birthday. I must weigh myself tomorrow morning and check that I am on track to loose the 5 kilograms this month as agreed with sluttyboi on his last visit 2 weeks ago.

I am petrified as it is about half way into the month allocated and I have yet to weigh myself.... and it is Birthday time... scrummy chocolate cake and champagne etc.... and lovely dinners cooked by slave while we are away.... damn, I see that I am going to have to go on a starvation diet for the 2 weeks post birthday if I have a remote chance in hell of making my target.

Oh dear ! so 12 for birthday, another 6 if have not at least lost 2 kilograms....hope I have lost more....:) oops....

And we all know what my bottom looked like last time after 18.... if I am not careful it will look like this again if not worse! Now I really am starting to develop a slight case of the nerves... oh who am I kidding ... a terrible case of the nerves.... as getting 18 this week will indicate that I am fast on my way to receiving 45! Damn...

"Happy Birthday Week Scarlett"

My adorable Master announced this morning that it was the start of my Birthday Week! Never mind that Master is allowing me to go off on a lovely decadent sexy 5 day trip with my slave , "bitch" and my sluttyboi on my birthday,He started the celebrations early today!

I had the most amazing morning of hard use and orgasm after orgasm after orgasm.... oh what a way to start a birthday week! If that is how it is , why do I only get one a year !  I have yet to receive a birthday spanking ... but I am quite sure there will be a number of those to be had... thank goodness I had the sense not to bet on the rugby this weekend...

Plans are coming along nicely for our trip away as of Saturday! ( note to self, ensure 3g card is rica'd and has a couple of gigs of data loaded on it ... so I can blog while away and keep all my darling readers updated on our shenanigans while away).

I have spent a day and a half cleaning and sorting out the essential kit that needs to go along on our trip... LORD be merciful! I did not realise one that I had so much equipment or two how much stuff is required for a kinky week away! I have 2 x Large roller bins, 2 black storage bins a LARGE toolbox , a block and tackle with suspension bar, a tube filled with canes and whips (bullwhips packed in a box) and a kit bag of stuff... one whole box is dedicated to electro play items, another to medical play and the other two filled with vibrators dildos...pegs, rope, clamps etc...

I am terribly excited... this week's blogs will be all about getting ready for my trip with the two boys and some of the naughty plans I have for slave and some of the naughty wicked things I hope sluttyboi will be doing to me... and any birthday spankings that may arise... I am sure HH will want to give me one before I go!

Hope every one's week starts off as great as mine... do have an orgasm or two... it does set the tome for a really fabulous week!

Happy Birthday week for all with me! Orgasms for all! Spankings for me!

Countdown to a devilish birthday celebration...

As much as I think I am having a mid-life crisis thinking about my soon to be birthday, I am incredibly excited as well! Instead of having a nice vanilla party and having all my old friends over I am going away for a very extended weekend with my slave accompanied by sluttyboi/sluttySir for a celebration with a twist!

The plan is that we will be abusing and molesting slave to our hearts content during the day and then have him cook,clean and serve for us in the evenings. In between everything happening at the office this week I have been searching for suitable country cottages for us to go to. An unbearably tedious task as next weekend has become a long weekend for most people as Tuesday is National Women's Day ( Public Holiday ) and most people have taken the Monday off and created a 4 day holiday off it.

I have a number of requests out in the market from the Drakensberg to the bushveld and beyond! Nothing more than 2 - 3 hours drive away from Johannesburg, secluded and private with a thatched roof ( need place to suspend slave from) with a well appointed kitchen ( slave is a gourmet cook and needs space to create).

In a next life I am coming back as a travel agent or logistics guru, trying to co-ordinate travel plans for a party of three, two who need to fly in from a separate destination in Africa on a public holiday weekend takes some doing,not to even mention the menu planning, grocery lists or the detailed lists of toys and equipment to be checked , packed and transported for a bdsm weekend away in the country.

But I am not complaining as I am quiet sure this is going to be one of my best birthday celebrations yet ! And I have had some ....so this week I will be writing about what to pack, not to pack and agonising over how many times I will have to bend over for a birthday spanking and what my bottom will look like by the time I go away to my country retreat....where I shall be doing this to my slave....

And having this done to me by sluttyboi.....

And this by sluttySir....

And me making slave and sluttyboi  do this to eachother....

Now is that not how every woman should be spending her 45th birthday ?