Lovers and kink.........

As an active spankophile and spankee it is at times very difficult to explain my activities to a new lover. One always wonders when one should bring up the fact that you do so enjoy having your bottom spanked and that one has one's own slave that willingly and lovingly presents himself for spanking, caning , whipping and more.....

I had from the start indicated to Bob The Crocodile , as he is affectionately known ( due to his predilection for biting me), that I enjoy a good spanking and that I had a darling slave called " bitch". Bob has been so kind as to regularly spank me for pleasure... not as yet as punishment... and I dread the day I get a spanking as punishment from him.

Recently I have started moving all my toys and implements into a new play space/ dungeon and Bob has graciously been assisting me , in the moving we have started unpacking and Bob has discovered my bullwhips and lunging whips....

Bob has now become rather fond of the bullwhip and has been practising his swing and cracking of the whip.... a little to well for my own peace of mind....I now live in greater fear of domestic discipline in our new love affair...

I am thrilled however that my lover has embraced me so fully though and is an active participant in my life and has embraced spanking as a part of our time together...

In this instance my instincts were right... being open and honest has resulted in a love affairs based on complete honesty and an enjoyment of my fetish and a joint discovery of others ...

VIVA BOB THE CROCODILE ....

P.S and he indulges me in my Stepford Wife predilection as well... allowing me to prance around in high heels , pearls and an apron only cooking and serving dinner for him... what more can a girl ask for ?

Bryce Lawrence... my new intended target !

Sadly South Africa was eliminated from the 2011 RWC on Sunday. I however have been victorious for the last weeks in our betting and HH is due to receive 18 of the best from me. I however would gladly give HH a pass if I could get my hands on Bryce Lawrence the idiot of a referee.

He needs serious retraining and a good solid caning to make him pay attention....

Big weekend bets coming and I may just yet loose and end up bending for HH very soon again....

I leave you with some images of what I would like to do to one said referee that ensured my Bokke were sent home early ! My blood is green , but I will be wearing Black & White proudly in support of  my slaves home team! Lucky for bitch the Kiwi's are not playing against the Bokke.... I had been thinking about ordering bitch to wear green and support the Bokke publicly in New Zealand! That would have been real interesting.....

Be back soon with new sexy spanking and other pics for you all of my new play room and our first plays in it.... but for now... what I would like to do to Bryce Lawrence.

Snippets from my crazy weeks ...

It has been far to long since I have blogged. Bad naughty girl that I am. I must make a point of writing at least every second day or so! I will endeavour to keep to a regular schedule. Lots of news to share... since I last blogged , I have cooked dinner in the nude in my heels and an apron ( lovingly made by myself) for a dear friend and was duly rewarded by a delightful spanking and some related fun! Been spanked by same friend more times than I can mention (not that I am complaining).

Had a number of pictures taken of my bottom and pussy by same friend, started planning my kinky photographic shoot ( just need to get all the props and wardrobe together and make it happen, I certainly will share the results here!) 

Found the perfect rental space for the creation of my personal dungeon/play space. Started planning the layout of the space... ( any suggestions or ideas are welcome, or suggestions of must have items in a dungeon) .

And of course silly girl that I am have taken more bets with HH on rugby ( especially with the 2011 Rugby World Cup on now) , and have lost quiet a bit already and currently need to go pay of my debts next week. Currently I am already due 12 of the best from HH and there are a number of games to be played yet this week, by the time the last game is played on Saturday , I may be back up to about 24 or more... so watch this space... this coming week probably Tuesday or Wednesday there will be new posts regarding my punishment and the inevitable pictures of a bruised and well caned bottom.

Exciting times ahead and I am planning a photographic BDSM play party with a fellow kinkster... more photos to be shared after the party on the 15th of October 2011.

And since I have been so bad about writing I will be posting a number of pictures this weekend for your pleasure... most of them of my bottom and other bits punished and well attended to ...

Enjoy ... hope you will all pop in regularly this weekend and see what I have been up to in the last weeks ( I have been a tad busy..as the photos will show). And I have spanked a male submissive bottom or two... rather hard and well!

See you tomorrow again!

Countdown to a devilish birthday celebration...

As much as I think I am having a mid-life crisis thinking about my soon to be birthday, I am incredibly excited as well! Instead of having a nice vanilla party and having all my old friends over I am going away for a very extended weekend with my slave accompanied by sluttyboi/sluttySir for a celebration with a twist!

The plan is that we will be abusing and molesting slave to our hearts content during the day and then have him cook,clean and serve for us in the evenings. In between everything happening at the office this week I have been searching for suitable country cottages for us to go to. An unbearably tedious task as next weekend has become a long weekend for most people as Tuesday is National Women's Day ( Public Holiday ) and most people have taken the Monday off and created a 4 day holiday off it.

I have a number of requests out in the market from the Drakensberg to the bushveld and beyond! Nothing more than 2 - 3 hours drive away from Johannesburg, secluded and private with a thatched roof ( need place to suspend slave from) with a well appointed kitchen ( slave is a gourmet cook and needs space to create).

In a next life I am coming back as a travel agent or logistics guru, trying to co-ordinate travel plans for a party of three, two who need to fly in from a separate destination in Africa on a public holiday weekend takes some doing,not to even mention the menu planning, grocery lists or the detailed lists of toys and equipment to be checked , packed and transported for a bdsm weekend away in the country.

But I am not complaining as I am quiet sure this is going to be one of my best birthday celebrations yet ! And I have had some ....so this week I will be writing about what to pack, not to pack and agonising over how many times I will have to bend over for a birthday spanking and what my bottom will look like by the time I go away to my country retreat....where I shall be doing this to my slave....

And having this done to me by sluttyboi.....

And this by sluttySir....

And me making slave and sluttyboi  do this to eachother....

Now is that not how every woman should be spending her 45th birthday ?

Punishment tonight ....

One would think after my session this evening that I had learnt my lesson? I certainly felt every stroke and will be feeling some of them for days yet... HH certainly spanked and caned my bottom well... yet as we sat chatting afterwards and I was asked if I was betting on the weekend game between Australia and South Africa, instead of declining I heard myself say " Yes Sure , Why not..." silly girl and this combined with the threat of 45 if I do not lose the required number of kilograms this month... I should have my head read....I am certifiably mad , of that I am convinced!

All warmed up and ready to start!

SO we started with a light spanking with the tawse to warm up my bottom , one after the other HH softly spanked my bottom with the tawse interjecting with a harder swat or two , just to ensure that I do not fall asleep or drift off, keeping my mind focused on the job at hand and of the punishment that was to come!

10 down 18 to go! all evenly spaced!

We had agreed that we would do it sets 1 of four strokes and then four sets of 6 each!  The warm up was fine and the first four were all okay... but as HH started going lower down ( as he was laying down evenly spaced straight lines all over my bottom) it started to burn, those sensitive areas that under normal circumstances do not get much attention from the cane!

Close up after 16 strokes of the erringly accurate cane!

After each set of 6 a picture would be taken and the burn rubbed into me and welts rubbed , as soothing as that is it also brings its own unique pain... and of course standing on display having your bottom photographed shames a girl in ways that cannot be explained!

All done... out on display waiting for it to settle!

Feverish Dreams

Suffice to say I feel like death warmed up and oh so unsexy, not remotely sexy or cute at all. My brain feels fried and I have been moping around in my best pj's for the last two days wafting in and out of semi consciousness.  When not doped up dreaming of being doped up and hoping the meds will kick in soon, wishing for the aches and pains to go away! Hell I would even sign up for a thrashing right now if it would take this horrible listless achy feeling away!

I hate spluttering and dripping all over the show, my eyes are teary and my nose keeps running ... I look and feel terrible! And to add to it my fever has inspired me to have some truly strange dreams... some nice and others not so nice and I am feeling decidedly mean... what I would give for something or somebody to trample on round about now! I may just feel better when somebody or something else is suffering with me!

The look in her eye describes how I feel!

And the weather has turned nasty, tomorrow's high will be a very cold 13 degrees Celsius ( 55F), one good thing though is I have the perfect excuse for not bounding up out of bed, I am ill. At least I can snuggle in a little lower and stay warm and toasty inside. Well time to stop writing as I can feel the drug induced delirium setting in... let me go before I say things I should not....

Hope to feel better tomorrow and write about sexier spankier subjects!

White Mischief - Chapter 3

The continuing misadventures of slutty boy and slutty miss in the bushveld...

As sluttyboy has only just received his visa and can now enter South Africa...I sincerely hope to get to the bush this weekend as next weekend I need to move furniture and boxes.......

sluttyboy has indeed been very busy creating new pictorial stories for me as to what he would hope will happen to him while we are away and since day two is all about me being sluttymiss and him being dominant he has created a story or two about that as well... let's explore some of his ideas...

Wired for more than just sound...well I hope he gags me or the whole camp will hear my screams.

Tied up , and spanked with a strap....

A light work out at the gym ?

ohhhhh the paddle a good old fashioned paddling...



I have no idea if we will ever see the light of day or even make it out on a game drive with the very full programme dear sluttyboy has planned, I however do not mind as I can always go on safari again, but it may be a while before I see sluttyboy for play again.

Note to slutty boy...... HURRY ON OVER NOW! It has been weeks...

The price of neglect ! Short mobile video clip included

What happens to naught boy toys? Toys whom neglect their Mistress? This is what happens to them.....

1) They are told to arrive stuffed to collect their Mistress ... having a butt plug in for 4 hours can be rather uncomfortable if you drive in a pick up truck on dirt roads....giggle

Stuffed hurting slut.. on his way to Mistress

2) They have to be wearing cute black g stings to hold said butt plug in place under their jeans...

3) They are taken sex toy shopping by their Mistress for a nice new glass dildo ( will feature in future stories) and a lovely vibrating egg.

4) Then they are taken to a very large shopping centre for some window shopping and instructed to remove the butt plug and replace with the vibrating egg sans lubricant and bring the butt plug to Mistress and hand to her in public (right in the main passage in front of the bathroom)  to store in her handbag . Go window shopping with Mistress whilst she controls the vibrating egg.

5) Start driving Mistress home and be tormented in peak hour traffic as Mistress randomly switches on the vibrating egg.

Bare bottom next to road, vibrator conrol in hand for Mistress's pleasure

6) Then they are instructed to stop at the side of the road on a very busy road in peak hour traffic and drop their pants for a spanking by their Mistress whilst leaning against the side of the pick up truck, drop their pants, have the g string pulled up in a lovely wedgie and are paddled deftly , with vibrating egg being switched on and off at random and receive a hand job from Mistress on the side of the road and she stops just before toy cums...

7) Then Mistress starts the process over again and again, whilst getting toy to repeat that he is a naughty filthy slut and is sorry for the neglect and will never do it again.

Oh my!  No orgasms for you today!

8) Then they have to drive Mistress home, drop her off at the gate and go on their merry way with a lovely pink bottom, smarting and vibrating egg in and are instructed to masturbate all the way home.

9) Participate in your humiliation by mailing Mistress the pictures and videos she took of you on your mobile phone to her for her use in her blog.

What has toy learnt today? Hopefully he now knows that I am still his Mistress, he is lucky I did not release him! Better never ever again neglect Mistress and that Mistress is a bitch! She will punish you when least expected very publicaly.

My apologies for poor quality of video clip, was taken on mobile at the side of the road.... but gives an idea...

Next post tomorrow morning first thing about 8 am SA time,I promise , what is going to happen to me on our weekend safari trip!