"Happy Birthday Week Scarlett"

My adorable Master announced this morning that it was the start of my Birthday Week! Never mind that Master is allowing me to go off on a lovely decadent sexy 5 day trip with my slave , "bitch" and my sluttyboi on my birthday,He started the celebrations early today!

I had the most amazing morning of hard use and orgasm after orgasm after orgasm.... oh what a way to start a birthday week! If that is how it is , why do I only get one a year !  I have yet to receive a birthday spanking ... but I am quite sure there will be a number of those to be had... thank goodness I had the sense not to bet on the rugby this weekend...

Plans are coming along nicely for our trip away as of Saturday! ( note to self, ensure 3g card is rica'd and has a couple of gigs of data loaded on it ... so I can blog while away and keep all my darling readers updated on our shenanigans while away).

I have spent a day and a half cleaning and sorting out the essential kit that needs to go along on our trip... LORD be merciful! I did not realise one that I had so much equipment or two how much stuff is required for a kinky week away! I have 2 x Large roller bins, 2 black storage bins a LARGE toolbox , a block and tackle with suspension bar, a tube filled with canes and whips (bullwhips packed in a box) and a kit bag of stuff... one whole box is dedicated to electro play items, another to medical play and the other two filled with vibrators dildos...pegs, rope, clamps etc...

I am terribly excited... this week's blogs will be all about getting ready for my trip with the two boys and some of the naughty plans I have for slave and some of the naughty wicked things I hope sluttyboi will be doing to me... and any birthday spankings that may arise... I am sure HH will want to give me one before I go!

Hope every one's week starts off as great as mine... do have an orgasm or two... it does set the tome for a really fabulous week!

Happy Birthday week for all with me! Orgasms for all! Spankings for me!

Countdown to a devilish birthday celebration...

As much as I think I am having a mid-life crisis thinking about my soon to be birthday, I am incredibly excited as well! Instead of having a nice vanilla party and having all my old friends over I am going away for a very extended weekend with my slave accompanied by sluttyboi/sluttySir for a celebration with a twist!

The plan is that we will be abusing and molesting slave to our hearts content during the day and then have him cook,clean and serve for us in the evenings. In between everything happening at the office this week I have been searching for suitable country cottages for us to go to. An unbearably tedious task as next weekend has become a long weekend for most people as Tuesday is National Women's Day ( Public Holiday ) and most people have taken the Monday off and created a 4 day holiday off it.

I have a number of requests out in the market from the Drakensberg to the bushveld and beyond! Nothing more than 2 - 3 hours drive away from Johannesburg, secluded and private with a thatched roof ( need place to suspend slave from) with a well appointed kitchen ( slave is a gourmet cook and needs space to create).

In a next life I am coming back as a travel agent or logistics guru, trying to co-ordinate travel plans for a party of three, two who need to fly in from a separate destination in Africa on a public holiday weekend takes some doing,not to even mention the menu planning, grocery lists or the detailed lists of toys and equipment to be checked , packed and transported for a bdsm weekend away in the country.

But I am not complaining as I am quiet sure this is going to be one of my best birthday celebrations yet ! And I have had some ....so this week I will be writing about what to pack, not to pack and agonising over how many times I will have to bend over for a birthday spanking and what my bottom will look like by the time I go away to my country retreat....where I shall be doing this to my slave....

And having this done to me by sluttyboi.....

And this by sluttySir....

And me making slave and sluttyboi  do this to eachother....

Now is that not how every woman should be spending her 45th birthday ?

Midlife Crisis

I am having a slight melt down as I lay here on my bed thinking about my upcoming birthday in less than two weeks time. I am greatly cheered by the fact that I am friends with so many ardent spankophiles and will in all likelihood get spanked soundly for the week leading to my birthday and hopefully for at least the week after.

I  think I am having a minor midlife crisis... what is it about turning 45 that is making me feel like this. Overnight I am wondering if I am to old to be behaving like this and to be plastering my soundly spanked bottom all over my blog? Should I be behaving with more decorum as becomes a woman of my age?

Will I ever get enough of being spanked? Am I to live with this continual craving for more... terrified of what I earn for myself regularly yet always seeking more and behaving badly, breaking the rules, not achieving my weight loss goals, making silly sports bets... all so I can receive my regular punishment... and what if my bottom starts to wrinkle? Will I be so eager to have it so boldly on display ?

What is the solution to this madness ? I know my standard reply ....... GO forth and earn a great good spanking... maybe it will force me to focus on my tender bottom instead of these ridiculous bouts of panic and self doubt....

Monday Blues

I have had such a crazy week and a busy weekend work wise and even though I have tried really hard to eat only what I should,I have had a couple of drinks and am quiet sure that I have not lost enough weight this past week and the clock is ticking towards the date I need to have lost 5 kilograms or face 45 strokes from HH and on top of that a caning /spanking of undetermined strokes from sluttyboi... I am petrified of what will happen and have been having flashes of what my bottom is going to look like and the rest of me...

My bottom blue...

I am feeling more than a little blue knowing that my bottom and other bits are going to be blue ....that is a blue little bottom after 6 or so...

What happens after 45 ? We know what happens after 28....

so I may just feel blue emotionally at this time, but I am getting the distinct feeling that I am going to literally be blue as well.... I really need to get more exercise and not drink....

Pretty picture

Apologies for lack of narrative today ! Long day at office , just home ! Photograph will hopefully suffice! They do say a picture speaks a 1000 words... enjoy!

sluttySir continued....

Where was I in the telling of my tale? Torquemada had just offered my up for torture and penance on the Sunday morning and flogged my back and rubbed it with a Tabasco rub... sluttySir had stuck a big red cross on my back with duct tape and laid me out like an altar, flowers in between my ass cheeks, candles lit ( pooling wax )along my back asking me if I knew anal sex was a sin !

Altar !

My sins needed to be beaten out of me and that I needed to be tortured till I confessed. As I lay there he started beating me with the strap all over. With hard blows of the strap on my thighs,legs , bottom and feet! Oi how the bastinado hurt... and all while I had to lie still as I had a series of candles lit balanced on my back! I could not help but wriggle as my feet were being spanked. Earning me the wrath of sluttySir and more spanking.

Very strapped legs !

Once satisfied that my legs and feet had been seen to and that I was getting closer to breaking down and confessing my sins .... the candles came into play and Sir dropped hot wax all over my tender burny Tabasco rubbed back! This just reignited the burn from the Tabasco and sealed the burn into my skin some more!

At this stage , I just gave in ! I was still belligerent... and am sure if Sir had continued I would have confessed to just about anything !

Flogged, brushed, strapped and waxed....with flowers left out on display

For a first session of submission it had been enough and it was time for our breakfast at the guest house! I was released, my back scraped clean and left to tidy the mess before breakfast.

I look forward to my next session as sluttymiss for sluttySir a worthy man to submit to with and incredibly evil mind! One that without a doubt will create a m,ore intense experience next time.... very soon I am sure.

Tender tender bits..gently resting my zebra bottom!

I have to report back that I still have each and every line on my bottom! Which surprised both HH and myself as usually by the next morning after a caning I have not a single mark to show!

As meek as a little lamb , resting my strpey bottom on a soft pillow!

I am sitting very carefully today and am so thrilled that the massage session we are receiving at the office today is not a full body one and only a neck and shoulder as I would be hard pressed to explain to a therapist at work what the lines on my bottom were as they are unmistakeably cane marks!

Sitting on an extra soft pillow with great care! I have no idea what HH did last nite but it certainly was a punishment session and a half... and I will be feeling it for a day or two at least!