Femdom Time - Preparing for slave's visit, Rules for Slave

My blogs will be very varied in the next weeks,however I will be paying a lot of attention to various plans that need to be completed before slave arrives, so much to do so little time. I am currently developing a set of rules that will govern slaves time with me as we will be spending 30 days in a 24/7 setting.

The following are his draft rules ( some refinement required) :

1 Overall

Slave is a submissive masochist male. Slave gives his submission to Mistress on the basis that she knows and accepts this. Slave's submission to Mistress is absolute and without condition. Slave places no limits on Mistresses behaviour and will accept anything she chooses to do.

Slave will live his life with the sole aim of pleasing Mistress in everything slave does and says.

-          Slave will obey Mistress at all times; serving her to please and satisfy her needs. This is the sole reason for her acknowledgement of slave and her acceptance of slave as her slave boy.

-          When slave is not with Mistress every decision slave makes will be aimed at pleasing, satisfying and serving her even though she is not there with slave.

-          Slave is aware that each and every action of slave’s is a reflection of Mistress and slave shall ever act in a manner that would damage the good name and reputation of Mistress.

Mistress knows what is best for slave.

-          Slave trusts Mistress totally and implicitly to control and regulate every aspect of slave’s life using slaves submission to her and the absolute power she exerts over slave.

-          When slave has concerns or worries slave will always communicate them to her in a clear and direct way. Once she has considered them she will make her reply in the same way and slave will accept that reply without query or hesitation.

When slave fails in the above Mistress will punish slave.

-          Failure to comply with these rules will result in punishment. This punishment may include but is not restricted to the use of physical restraint and the infliction of pain. The choice, timing, level and duration of any punishment is entirely at Mistress’s discretion without any right of appeal or objection on the part of slave.

Spare the rod, spoil the boy!

2 Clothing and Appearance

-          In private and in the presence of others who accept our lifestyle slave shall remain naked at all times except for slave’s collar plus any additional restraints Mistress may place on slave from time to time. Slave may not wear more than this without Mistress’s express permission.

-          Slave will in public wear a symbol indicating Mistresses ownership of slave.

-          In public slave shall wear whatever clothing Mistress may select for slave which will at all times include female panties. Such clothing is to be worn in a neat and tidy manner so as to reflect well on Mistress

-          Slave shall be groomed and shaved at all times, unless Mistress has otherwise instructed. Slave is to ensure that his hands are manicured at all times and that slave’s feet are always immaculately pedicured.

Enema time, this is easy one, usually enemas are admisitered inverted!

-          Slave’s groin and anal regions :

o   must be kept smooth and hairless at all time

o   are to be washed regularly and kept scrupulously clean, weekly enemas to be administered

o   must be perfumed as Mistress instructs

3   Behaviour & Etiquette

3.1 General

-          slave must never raise his eyes above the level of Mistress’s knees without her express permission.

-          slave must never look into Mistresses eyes without her express permission.

-          Slave must obey any every instruction given by Mistress quickly and accurately to the exclusion of all other activities.

-          Slave may never refuse an instruction from Mistress and if slave fails to understand any instruction slave will seek clarification as outlined in other sections of these rules.

3.2 In Private

-          slave must remain on slaves knees at all times, crawling from place to place unless slave is  carrying out a task ordered by Mistress which makes this impossible. In this case slave will return to his knees at the earliest practical moment.

-          Slave must never offer anything to or receive any from Mistress in a standing position. Slave must always be on his knees.

-          Slave’s head must be bowed and eyes cast down to the level of Mistresses feet in the presence of Mistress unless slave is given permission to do otherwise.

-          Slave will address Mistress as Mistress or Goddess and in no other manner

-          If slave requires Mistress’s attention slave must kneel in front of her and kiss her left foot holding slaves lips to her foot until she acknowledges slaves request. If her left foot is not at ground level then slave may kiss her right. If both her feet are raised from the floor then slave must kiss the ground at her feet waiting for her to place a foot on the ground. Slave must then kiss her foot waiting for her to acknowledge slaves request.

At Mistress's feet ....where he belongs!

-          When not engaged in any other activity slave must kneel on Mistress’s left hand side, head bowed and wait without movement or sound never let slaves attention wander from Mistress until she has further use for slave.

-          Slave must acknowledge receipt of any order from Mistress by lowering slaves head further and then quickly moving to carry it out. If slave requires further information to carry it out slave must request Mistresses attention in the manner outlined above.

3.3 In the presence of others who accept our lifestyle

-          Slave’s status is automatically the lowest of all presence no matter what their status within their own relationships.

-          On arrival slave will greet each guest on his knees, eyes lowered and head bowed.

-          Slave will address all female guests as Ma’am, all male guests as Sir and all dominant women as they request.

-          Slave may not look at any female above ankle level no matter what the circumstances unless at the command of Mistress.

-          In all other ways slaves behaviour will be  as it is when we are in private and slave will acknowledge the superiority of all other present by behaving towards them as slave does his  Mistress unless slave receive instructions from  Mistress to the contrary.

3.4 In the presence of those who do not know of or accept our lifestyle

-          Slave’s behaviour shall be that of the “perfect gentleman”. Slave shall be attentive to Mistress at all times and shall not allow her to carry out any task, such as opening a door, carrying a package, that slave may be expected to carry out.

-          Slave’s demeanour will be submissive but slave will not do anything to embarrass or draw attention to slave or Mistress unless specifically instructed to do so by Mistress.

-          If slave fails to understand  Mistress’s intention slave will seek clarification in a quiet respectful manner

-          In general discussion with other slave may query Mistress but this must be done in a respectful non-challenging manner.

4.  Specific Tasks Responsibilities

-          Slave is responsible for all domestic duties when the domestic servant is not at work and on week- ends within the house and must complete without fail each of the task specified on the attached daily schedule task list within the given time frame.

-          Slave will be responsible for all the cooking and shopping. All meals to be healthy and according to the dietary rules for both Mistress and slave.

-          Slave will give Mistress a pedicure and manicure once per week.

-          Slave will wake Mistress each morning , making a cup of tea, serving it to her in bed, ensuring that both Mistress and slave training gear is ready. It is the responsibility of slave to get Mistress and slave to the gym 5 days per week.

-          Slave will shampoo Mistresses hair and blow-dry her hair according to styling guide from Mistresses hairdresser.

-          Slave will run Mistresses bath and attend to her in her bath at all times, washing her, shaving her smoothly, without nicking her ever, and applying body lotion.

-          Slave will serve as Mistress’s toilet and will consume all her bodily wastes with his mouth in such a way as to prevent mess and odour. Slave will also carry out this task for any other person as required by Mistress.

Slave with head in a toilet box, :)

-          Slave is responsible for the collection and disposal of the products of Mistress menstrual cycle. Slave will carry out this task with his mouth in accordance with the training Mistress provided.

Next blog more about control......