Saturday, 30 April 2011

Lingering reminders of a brushing down.

Just a quick update.... I certainly will never cross the particular line I crossed during Easter weekend. I still ache and am incredibly tender.... it is four days later and I am still very aware of my punishment and the effects thereof.

Lesson learnt , I never ever again want to feel this pain ever again,it out strips any spanking, caning or whipping I have ever experienced in my life before!

Femdom Time - Preparing for slave's visit, Rules for Slave

My blogs will be very varied in the next weeks,however I will be paying a lot of attention to various plans that need to be completed before slave arrives, so much to do so little time. I am currently developing a set of rules that will govern slaves time with me as we will be spending 30 days in a 24/7 setting.


The following are his draft rules ( some refinement required) :

1 Overall

Slave is a submissive masochist male. Slave gives his submission to Mistress on the basis that she knows and accepts this. Slave's submission to Mistress is absolute and without condition. Slave places no limits on Mistresses behaviour and will accept anything she chooses to do.

Slave will live his life with the sole aim of pleasing Mistress in everything slave does and says.

-          Slave will obey Mistress at all times; serving her to please and satisfy her needs. This is the sole reason for her acknowledgement of slave and her acceptance of slave as her slave boy.

-          When slave is not with Mistress every decision slave makes will be aimed at pleasing, satisfying and serving her even though she is not there with slave.

-          Slave is aware that each and every action of slave’s is a reflection of Mistress and slave shall ever act in a manner that would damage the good name and reputation of Mistress.

Mistress knows what is best for slave.

-          Slave trusts Mistress totally and implicitly to control and regulate every aspect of slave’s life using slaves submission to her and the absolute power she exerts over slave.

-          When slave has concerns or worries slave will always communicate them to her in a clear and direct way. Once she has considered them she will make her reply in the same way and slave will accept that reply without query or hesitation.


When slave fails in the above Mistress will punish slave.

-          Failure to comply with these rules will result in punishment. This punishment may include but is not restricted to the use of physical restraint and the infliction of pain. The choice, timing, level and duration of any punishment is entirely at Mistress’s discretion without any right of appeal or objection on the part of slave.

Spare the rod, spoil the boy!



2 Clothing and Appearance

-          In private and in the presence of others who accept our lifestyle slave shall remain naked at all times except for slave’s collar plus any additional restraints Mistress may place on slave from time to time. Slave may not wear more than this without Mistress’s express permission.

-          Slave will in public wear a symbol indicating Mistresses ownership of slave.

-          In public slave shall wear whatever clothing Mistress may select for slave which will at all times include female panties. Such clothing is to be worn in a neat and tidy manner so as to reflect well on Mistress

-          Slave shall be groomed and shaved at all times, unless Mistress has otherwise instructed. Slave is to ensure that his hands are manicured at all times and that slave’s feet are always immaculately pedicured.

Enema time, this is easy one, usually enemas are admisitered inverted!


-          Slave’s groin and anal regions :

o   must be kept smooth and hairless at all time
o   are to be washed regularly and kept scrupulously clean, weekly enemas to be administered
o   must be perfumed as Mistress instructs



3   Behaviour & Etiquette

3.1 General

-          slave must never raise his eyes above the level of Mistress’s knees without her express permission.

-          slave must never look into Mistresses eyes without her express permission.


-          Slave must obey any every instruction given by Mistress quickly and accurately to the exclusion of all other activities.

-          Slave may never refuse an instruction from Mistress and if slave fails to understand any instruction slave will seek clarification as outlined in other sections of these rules.


3.2 In Private

-          slave must remain on slaves knees at all times, crawling from place to place unless slave is  carrying out a task ordered by Mistress which makes this impossible. In this case slave will return to his knees at the earliest practical moment.

-          Slave must never offer anything to or receive any from Mistress in a standing position. Slave must always be on his knees.

-          Slave’s head must be bowed and eyes cast down to the level of Mistresses feet in the presence of Mistress unless slave is given permission to do otherwise.

-          Slave will address Mistress as Mistress or Goddess and in no other manner

-          If slave requires Mistress’s attention slave must kneel in front of her and kiss her left foot holding slaves lips to her foot until she acknowledges slaves request. If her left foot is not at ground level then slave may kiss her right. If both her feet are raised from the floor then slave must kiss the ground at her feet waiting for her to place a foot on the ground. Slave must then kiss her foot waiting for her to acknowledge slaves request.

At Mistress's feet ....where he belongs!


-          When not engaged in any other activity slave must kneel on Mistress’s left hand side, head bowed and wait without movement or sound never let slaves attention wander from Mistress until she has further use for slave.

-          Slave must acknowledge receipt of any order from Mistress by lowering slaves head further and then quickly moving to carry it out. If slave requires further information to carry it out slave must request Mistresses attention in the manner outlined above.


3.3 In the presence of others who accept our lifestyle

-          Slave’s status is automatically the lowest of all presence no matter what their status within their own relationships.

-          On arrival slave will greet each guest on his knees, eyes lowered and head bowed.

-          Slave will address all female guests as Ma’am, all male guests as Sir and all dominant women as they request.

-          Slave may not look at any female above ankle level no matter what the circumstances unless at the command of Mistress.

-          In all other ways slaves behaviour will be  as it is when we are in private and slave will acknowledge the superiority of all other present by behaving towards them as slave does his  Mistress unless slave receive instructions from  Mistress to the contrary.

3.4 In the presence of those who do not know of or accept our lifestyle

-          Slave’s behaviour shall be that of the “perfect gentleman”. Slave shall be attentive to Mistress at all times and shall not allow her to carry out any task, such as opening a door, carrying a package, that slave may be expected to carry out.

-          Slave’s demeanour will be submissive but slave will not do anything to embarrass or draw attention to slave or Mistress unless specifically instructed to do so by Mistress.

-          If slave fails to understand  Mistress’s intention slave will seek clarification in a quiet respectful manner

-          In general discussion with other slave may query Mistress but this must be done in a respectful non-challenging manner.

4.  Specific Tasks Responsibilities

-          Slave is responsible for all domestic duties when the domestic servant is not at work and on week- ends within the house and must complete without fail each of the task specified on the attached daily schedule task list within the given time frame.

-          Slave will be responsible for all the cooking and shopping. All meals to be healthy and according to the dietary rules for both Mistress and slave.

-          Slave will give Mistress a pedicure and manicure once per week.

-          Slave will wake Mistress each morning , making a cup of tea, serving it to her in bed, ensuring that both Mistress and slave training gear is ready. It is the responsibility of slave to get Mistress and slave to the gym 5 days per week.

-          Slave will shampoo Mistresses hair and blow-dry her hair according to styling guide from Mistresses hairdresser.

-          Slave will run Mistresses bath and attend to her in her bath at all times, washing her, shaving her smoothly, without nicking her ever, and applying body lotion.

-          Slave will serve as Mistress’s toilet and will consume all her bodily wastes with his mouth in such a way as to prevent mess and odour. Slave will also carry out this task for any other person as required by Mistress.


Slave with head in a toilet box, :)

-          Slave is responsible for the collection and disposal of the products of Mistress menstrual cycle. Slave will carry out this task with his mouth in accordance with the training Mistress provided.

Next blog more about control......

Friday, 29 April 2011

Royal Wedding, Recovery and planning a slave's visit!

I am a utter Royalist... I have always been one and have enjoyed watching many a Royal occasion... today was no exception. It was a very lovely understated wedding , so much less pomp and ceremony than Charles and Diana's , I personally think. Princess Catherine looked lovely and I watched the whole glorious affair in total.

Needless to say not much else got done... the quiet down time is much needed as my fanny is still tender and raw and is recovering slowly but surely... so the quiet day with numerous cups of tea and minimal movement was pure bliss.

During the latter half of the ceremony my slave arrived online and we have been continuing our discussions and planning for hie impending 30 day visit... 24/7 submission from slave for 30 days.... and  7 full days in a full isolation hood.... in various states of bondage and with a variety of deliciously cruel punishments applied and administered...... I cannot wait to have slave back.... more stun guns, more needles and many more punishments for him....extreme play... as we both like it.... with an added twist, this time I think I am going to schedule some web casts ...all welcome to watch .... more blog later and some pictures of slave last visit and some pictures of new ideas for planned punishment and use....

xxxx Scarlett

Thursday, 28 April 2011

Simply punished !

What makes one punishment stand out from another and more memorable than another? Is it the "hardness" of the strokes, the number of strokes , the implement used or the intensity of the pain inflicted during the punishment?


 
Master is the Maestro of punishment, I am a pain slut and actually enjoy a good caning and spanking, fro me the are sometimes a treat to me, so punishing me in the more traditional manner is not an actual punishment. Thus Master has refined His punishment techniques and at first glance or during the application or meting out of a punishment , the submissive or an audience may think that it is not harsh at all or harsh enough.

Our guest for my punishment session had been part of my weekend mischief and helped me along my path of self destruction ( as any good self proclaimed sadist would). Pain is his thing, in a BIG way!

Master had given me my list of items to have ready, I have intimate knowledge of all of them and thought I knew what would happen, although I was a little scared I was far to confident as I have a high threshold for pain ( and enjoy spanking, caning and slapping a lot)  and came across far to cocky!

As a submissive ( Dominant to my slave, slutty boy and foot slut) there is a profound an epiphany to be had in a well given punishment. And yesterday"s punishment was profound in it's simplicity and had a  more powerful and lasting physical impact than anticipated.

It was a deceivingly simple low key punishment and I bore it with as much elegance and style as one can whilst being on display in that manner and doing the acts that are designed to be degrading and humiliating as these were ( since I was to be reminded of my place and to whom I belong, MASTER).

As the punishment was being administered our guest encouraged Master to add a spanking or caning into the mix as he was of the opinion my punishment was not severe enough to befit my crime. Master calmly announced that since I had been spanked so much the weekend I was inure to the impact of a spanking or caning.

Master had his very calm smiling voice on and said no , the punishment would surely remind his naughty brat what happens when she gets led astray by her urges and hormones....


The brushing down continued for about 15 minutes at a good pace, added to that afterwards the Tabasco and the Icy Blue and a good three hours sitting around naked with the treatment curing and I was in agony ( I still am in agony! ) and the agony just increased with every minute in the day. By last night my fanny was so swollen and raw that every movement caused me to cringe. And the simplest acts such as a bath or a pee nearly had me in tears, constantly reminding of my lesson.

I spent the whole day yesterday trying to sooth the pain,my fanny truly was on fire. It was boiling hot and it was leaking like a tap adding to the agony as raw delicate skin should be kept dry not wet and chafing with every move. As I sit here I can fully understand why babies howl as they do when they have nappy rash as I would like to howl with them!

I woke this morning to a less fiery fanny, now at a slow simmer or medium boil, but a day wearing jeans sans panties quickly has me back to full scale agony! A long chat with Master and him issuing the instruction to write about the lasting impact of a seemingly innocent punishment .

Why am I so stupid as to even do things like this, I my Master, he always punishes me with such simple elegance that leaves lasting lasting marks on my soul and in the aftermath of a punishment ( yesterday was a punishment, spanking and caning is foreplay for us) leaves me keenly aware of his touch and his undeniable ownership of me.

So when next confronted with a simple punishment do not be deceived! If it has been crafted or administered by Master, know it will be painful and deeply effective!

I adore my Master, he has such elegance and the most deliciously wicked mind. I will not stray in that manner ever again. oh yes I forgot to mention, I have been loaned out on an indefinite basis to our guest. When Master does not need me I am to be available virtually and in real life to our guest.

Just a last slap ....

Within simplicity lies lasting impact!

Flaming Fanny

Herewith a picture of a very well punished fanny. I will later today at about 5 pm SA time be writing another blog about my punishment. Master has instructed me to expound on the effects of yesterdays punishment. It may sound like a mild mediocre punishment, but the impact and effect was profound.

I may not have a flaming fanny today,it has calmed down to a mild boil and it aches a little less, yet I am constantly reminded of my lesson in more than one way with every move I make and every action I take.

Brushed down hard. Raw and tender!
Master certainly made an impact yesterday, I shall not forget this lesson any time soon!

Wednesday, 27 April 2011

Painfully punished - Part 2

As I was saying when I needed to go attend to my flaming fanny. After introduction, Master revealed the implements of torture. Pull ups on my rather abused , bruised and battered breasts as a reminder what got me into trouble and the hairbrush. I was to brush my fanny with the brush until he deemed it tender enough.

I thought a spanking with my flat brush was terrible, little did I realise what havoc a good brushing down could wreck on a freshly shaved fanny. This was not the end of my punishment with it came a series of rather humiliating discussions between Master and his guest about my behaviour and some Tabasco added to a butt plug that was duly inserted and a little icy gel applied with a toothbrush to my clitoris.

After some time I was instructed to coll all the affected areas down with the ice that was so conveniently requested.

Suffice to say, lesson learnt... do not chat to strangers, do not do silly things and post them while Master is away and when I get an itch for a spanking request one from Master or one of my pre-approved disciplinarians.

There is a picture of my flaming fanny , but best I get approval to post is before I get a spanking on my already very tender fanny.

Will request permission overnight and hopefully Master will allow me to publish it. Just of course as a warning to any other bottom, sub ,spouse and may I have learnt the lesson on behalf of all.

It is pure unadulterated hell, it has not stopped burning or radiating heat since this morning and it will be a very very long time ( like ever) before I cross this particular line.

Scarlett

Painfully punished!

It has been approximately 8 hours since my punishment and the slow burning heat has not subsided. My fanny ( and I must mention that on this side of the pond , a fanny is not one's bottom, it is one of the other spankable spots on a naughty girl) is still glowing and to think it was not even spanked.

Master had kept an eye on my Easter weekend shenanigans, followed my blog and read my daily reports ( I thought they were pithy , he disagrees - obviously hence today's punishment). and probably sat gleefully watching me participate in my own demise. I was on time for our daily chat and greeted him all smiley and was met with a calm sweet Master who greeted me and immediately started by saying " I am not angry with you ....."  . " Your punishment shall be at 9:00 UK time" and then proceeded to give me a long list of items that should be ready and laid out on my bed as He and another invited guest would be watching me apply my punishment on camera. And my punishment was to be done by me to myself since I did such a great job of getting myself into this mess !

Some of the items on my list were as follows :-
  • Pull up clamps ( nipple clamps joined by a very short piece of string and when applied , pull up , the sadist version of a Wonderbra)
  • Candles
  • Tabasco Sauce
  • Icy Blue Horse Gel
  • Large Buttplug
  • Largest Dildo
  • Hairbrush
  • Wooden Clothes Hanger
  • Strap
  • Ice cubes
  •  and a couple of other items...as I sit here I cannot remember since they were not used today, the were just part of the misdirection.
As yesterday dragged along I was getting more and more anxious as I know my Master, when he is this calm, I am going to get it GOOD! He never punishes me in anger, his punishments are meted out in the calmest most precise fashion ever, which in my opinion make them so lethal.

I am sure you all have seen my well bound and spanked breasts from my weekend postings. I had wide eyed and busy tailed started chatting with another dominant and had started off all pious and sweet and had in my lustful boredom become bolder and had dafter and had gleefully spanked my breasts to a lite puce colour in Master absence...all the while sending these short pithy mails telling Master everything I was getting up too, full well knowing that I would have to pay the piper somewhere down the line....


Two days later this is what I look like!

Thus we find ourselves on a bright chilly morning at 9:00 UK time, 10 :00 South African time in a conference video call , Master, Sir X and brat. Me, all clean , brave little face on equipment assembled waiting for what was to happen.

I had expected that sine I had spanked my breasts that I would be getting another spanking of sorts and was prepared for some spanking ... but NOOOOOOO, Master had dreamt up another perverted painful punishment.

First things first , we were welcomed by Master thanking us all for joining him with him outlining my sins and transgressions..

ohhhh must run need more barrier cream and calming chamomile for my glow in the dark fanny.....
rest to follow in an hour.......  pardon me but it is on fire!

Be back later , next post up at about 10 pmSouth African time... need a soothing bath, dinner and a handful of aspirin!

Punishment done for today!


Wanted Urgently!

Ohhhh my soul, my fanny is on fire....;it is literally glowing. I am sure a satellite or infrared goggles will pick it up.... it is bright red and radiating heat.... something to do with a freshly shaven fanny, a hairbrush and icy gel mixed with Tabasco.

When I actually pull myself together enough later I will describe my morning punishment and my mortification as Master had invited a guest to view it on camera. Suffice to say I feel Masters touch in detail on my very very raw and tender fanny as I sit here.

Lesson well and truly learnt... will not be doing that again soon...it has been a very longtime that I have felt the results of a punishment to this degree. Not much spanking took place as I had been spanked to a degree of numbness the weekend, self inflicted in my naughtiness.

More later today of what actually happened, new use for a hairbrush.

And if I can actually focus long enough to load a picture there will be a picture of a red glowing fanny.

Oooooooouuuuuuuchhhhhhhhhhhh ! It hurts so much , soft cotton pantie day and dresses could not imagine having to wear jeans or pants on my tender bits.

Back later for descriptive blog, cannot think straight enough to do justice to my punishment now.

Monday, 25 April 2011

Easter Monday - Last Chocolate Treat brought by the spanking Easter Bunny!





Naughty Girl's Tits spanked and punished!

Since I have been so naughty and it is holidays , I have been instructed to self spank and punish my tits today on camera! Naughty girls cannot and should not escape punishment . Since no one is around to discipline me I was instructed to punish myself to remind me of what will be coming soon!


Pink after spanking with strap!
I must say it is even more degrading when one has to punish yourself ( and best you do it well ,or the real punishment is going to be so much worse) . I was told to spank each tit with the strap 20 times! It turned all pink and was burning. Then each nipple received a good 50 strokes. Owwwwww that hurt , it started off burning but fast developed into a sharp searing pain. Doing the second nipple was agony as I knew what each stroke was going to feel like from doing nipple number one and I had to do it with the same vigour as number one.


Messy but tight as instructed!
I had hoped that would be it but NO.... self bondage was next on the cards... the instruction was tight. Now if you have ever tried to tie yourself with a long piece of rope you would know this is a difficult task. Under normal circumstances tying a breast is a challenge to get the rope to hold around the breast, doing it to yourself is even trickier .


Tightly tied with a mark or two!
I felt and still feel like such a cheap tart for doing this to myself (much pleasure was taken from seeing me do this to myself with many a lewd comment about what a absolute tarty naughty girl I am). The rope work is messy but tight.

As my breasts start going red and slightly blue I am instructed to give each breast anotherr good 20 strokes with the strap. Ouch ouch ouch ouch... NO please no more!

But alas, I have been naughty and pouty and have even been rather cocky about it in my blog and need to pay! As a final little delight ( not to me, I may say!) some nice tight washing pegs needed to be added into the mix.

Owwwwwwwwww! Ashamed that I actually obeyed and did this to myself?
I am writing my blog as I sit here, tits tied tight, spanked well and pegs on. Each movement is agony and typing ensures that the pegs wiggle and pinch more. Another 30 minutes of this and the bondage stays on until at least one person has commented on the posting... as there is a general feeling that I have been looking for sympathy and been bratty!


Each movement adds to the agony !
Soon I am going to be begging to be released from my punishment... it hurts...so much! And this is not even my real punishment... ooooooooouuuuuuucccchhhhh! If this is what the taster and teaser is like, what is the real deal going to be like? I shudder to think!

Sunday, 24 April 2011

Why I have been so naughty!

I am a very nervous girl as I sit here, this holiday weekend has been soooooooo long and I have been so bored and have gotten up to an inordinate amount of mischief..... I have been flirting with strangers, accepting naughty offers from all and sundry and been quiet belligerent, more so than normal. I have back chatted and also ignored instructions and long standing rules that Master has set out for me.




My only excuse is that I must be mental... or in my case hormonal. The worst is with me that my hormonal cycle is always a little freaky and not a regular as it should be and I refuse to take contraceptives that could stabilise it and get me into a regular cycle as they are actually quiet detrimental to your health.

It also amazes me that even though I should know that my brattiness and schizoprenhic like mood swings and insane craving for chocolate ( I mean like I want chocolate for breakfast kind of craving ) should be a immediate give away that I am about to enter a hormonal fugue....I still never seem to put one and one together until my period actually starts.



I really need a spanking, I am craving a spanking or punishment and have an appetite for pain in a rather disturbing manner.. I cannot seem to get enough... I am convinced a resounding spanking will settle my hormones and help me return to some semblance of the normal balanced girl I usually am.

I have been spoiling for a punishment for days by being petulant , stroppy and downright naughty... oh why is this holiday weekend so long and why is there no one available to spank me? Please oh please can someone spank me... I want to be me again! A nice red bottom will calm the brat in me. A lovely cure for menstrual cramps and crabbiness 1 kilogram delicious yummy chocolate and a bright red bottom, well spanked and tears to go along with it!


I need my bottom to look and feel like this !  Red bottom = sane girl

Easter Sunday chocolate treat....

Happy Easter Sunday... just back from my family Easter lunch and time for dessert.....

Saturday, 23 April 2011

Chocolate treat for today!

it just gets betetr and better!

Naughty Girl Easter Hunt....

It is Easter egg hunt day here today.... and I am taking part in the Easter egg hunt... if any of the daddies attending the hunt  guess that I have an egg hidden as well I will lay it for them ....


This is what happens to naughty girls, they have their fanny spanked hard the riding crop and then have to hide an egg for Easter egg hunt ! Have no idea who will find the egg maybe the Easter Bunny himself will come looking for it.

one fresh unboiled egg about to be hidden....

Friday, 22 April 2011

Naughty girl - am sure will be punished after holidays are done!

I have been such a naughty little girl! I have been flirting with strangers and have on request of a stranger spanked my own tits rather hard... so hard that it is sure to leave bruises. And I have been having way too much fun without permission.

I am fearful of what my punishment is going to end up being... as I am truly being a very tarty chocolate fueled naughty girl!  The longer the weekend continues and the more chocolate I have , it seems the more hyper I am getting and the bigger the mischief I am getting up to!

Very pink breast and tender nipple....am certainly going to bruise...

Easter Friday Chocolate treat!

Happy Easter ! Here is todays chocolate treat from the Easter Bunny !


Hmmmmmm dark chocolate...my favourite!


Thursday, 21 April 2011

More choclate anyone?

It seems I have found the perfect non fattening chocolate treat of all time? One last sweet treat for tonight, another sexy chocolate covered beauty.... I have enough to last the weekend.....I have not adhered to my own planned blog postings and will have to get back on track as of tomorrow...

Enjoy all your last chocolate or you will get tummy ache and Mommy needs to sleep tonight!

Just look at those eyes....

More tomorrow....

Happy Easter all!

Scarlett

Chocolate treats.....

Happy Easter to all, may you all travel safely if you are, especially all that are heading for the coast as is tradition here in South Africa.

I have a family filled week end, my nieces birthday tomorrow and a kids ( 3year old) Dora The Explorer themed Easter Egg Hunt for 30 kids on Saturday and a big family luncheon on Sunday.... all the spankers I know are away on leave so no Easter spanking for me.

As my Easter gift to you all I will supply adult themed Easter treats during the weekend. Do stop in for your daily dose.

Scarlett

Heidi Klum, naked covered in chocolate... and Easter Bunny treat indeed!

Happy Easter - An early Easter treat!


Does bunny get a Easter spanking Daddy?
Happy Easter to all of you who have been reading my blog! I decided to give all an early Easter treat since I know the Easter Bunny is going to be very nice to me. For those who are travelling to friends and family for Easter, be safe and enjoy the break.

Hmmmm does this not look just delectable? I found this photo on Fetlife, thank you to the photographer!


Yummmmmmmm!
I will be hunting for more Easter treats and will post some later between my blogs about my slave!

Happy Easter all!

Scarlett

Wednesday, 20 April 2011

Happy Feet - Part 3

Open wide!

I thought I would start my final blog for today with a short list of famous foot fetishists.


Jack Black, I wonder if he serves as a foot slave?




As per Wikipedia... nice impressive eclectic list is it not ?

 As promised a sex game that has been played for centuries with feet and toes is called Bugger my toe.... definition and description as found on net....
"Refers to a bedroom game in Britain. Refers to game in which object is to win by buggering your partner with your big toe. ChaCha Away!"  I wonder what the door prize is for winning that game?  I am sure many a foot goddess would rather use the heel of her appointed shoe to do this. Not for the faint hearted it is buggering a penis with a high heel.

Stand still now!

My last pictures for today of foot trampling and worship. Just for my foot slut as I so know what this does to him and for him, may it never be said that I do not take care of my toys well.



Just for you my little foot slut.


Tomorrow's blog will focus on my slave, bless him and his tolerance for submission and pain.